Time is a finite resource. Nothing lasts forever. My time is one of my most valuable resources, so I’m generally very intentional on how/where I invest it, especially when it comes to dating. I live my life with purpose. So I don’t want to waste my time and energy on…
Tag: single

Kim and Kanye… What Happened??
I was scrolling through posts on my Instagram feed… only to see a picture of Kim Kardashian-West praising her for being a good mother & wife. Then I saw a comment that she was divorcing Kanye. After searching a little bit, I read that Kim filed for a divorce from…

Why Marriage May Not Be The Best Option For Everyone
One thing I have learned at my ripe old age of 38 years old is that life is the best teacher… some may even propose that life is the only teacher. As a younger man, when I used to have discussions with my friends (men & women) on relationships and…

Why are you single?
To all the single professionals out there… let me ask you a few questions. It seems like most of the single people who I know that want to be in a relationship are having the same issues. Women are saying, “I can’t find a good man who can love me…

My Depressing Dating Life
My dating life sucks right now. It seems as if every woman who I find attractive either lives thousands of miles away, is in a committed relationship, or she is simply not interested in me. It’s even hard to find someone to flirt with! And, the sad part about it…

Family
Tomorrow morning I will wake up and I will be one day older than I am today. Sometimes I think about what have I learned from past experiences in life. What wisdom have I gained through living my life that I can speak into the lives of others. Or if…

Why I’m Still Single
The maturer you become, the more able you are to acknowledge your flaws, or better yet imperfections, while also finding a way to embrace them knowing that they are a part of who you are. In life, who you are… meaning your character, your beliefs, your values, your expectations, the…

Being Single Sucks!
Presentation is everything. If my world makes something out to be appeasing or good, then naturally I would think that it’s cool. Even Satan, the king of deceivers, made Adam and Eve think that it was cool for them to eat of the fruit of the tree of the knowledge…

Are We Moving Too Fast?
I recently starting dating a lady who has captured my heart. She is so very special to my heart, to the point that I even second-guessed writing this blog, feeling that it might place a wrench in our relationship which is currently running so smoothly. Yet, I feel there are…

Been Single for a While Now
I read a statement earlier this morning one of my friends posted on Instagram that read, “People who have been single for too long, are the hardest to love. They’ve become so used to being single, independent, and self sufficient, that it takes something extraordinary to convince them that they…