I received a revelation earlier this week after watching the Dear Future Wifey podcast, where it featured Derrick Jaxn giving an interview on his past relationship with his ex-wife Da’Naia Jackson. Hearing his transparent account of his poor decision-making and lack of leadership gave me a better understanding of why…
Category: Relationships
I am by no means an expert on relationships, but I do have wisdom on it… based upon learned knowledge and experiences. Finding the “right” friend or the “right” person to love is no easy task. I feel everyone has a different love language, and it would be wise to have an understanding of them all in order to have the best relationships.

A Friend With Benefits
What does a friend with benefits mean to you? It probably means something different to me. I would say when most women think of a friend with benefits, they think of a woman who allows a man to have casual sex with her without being in an exclusive dating relationship….

Dating 101: 5 Questions To Ask When Dating
Time is a finite resource. Nothing lasts forever. My time is one of my most valuable resources, so I’m generally very intentional on how/where I invest it, especially when it comes to dating. I live my life with purpose. So I don’t want to waste my time and energy on…

Single Women: A Few Dating Tips
All the single ladies. All the single ladies. Today I took time to shed a little wisdom on establishing and maintaining healthy dating relationships. I’m not going to cross the emotional sea waves and venture out into the the depths of everything which goes into dating. I want to simply…

The Prototype or the Stereotype
Single women. You’re on my radar today. I find many single women who I date and interact with have unrealistic expectations in general. As oftentimes their choices and actions aren’t in alignment with their goals. Even Denzel Washington said, “Dreams without goals, are just dreams.” In my opinion, women in…

Are Men Supposed To Treat Women Like Princesses?
Earlier today one of my friends shared an Instagram post. The post essentially said men should treat women they’re interested in like a princess. Just a side note: feeling a little shady today. All to say, this post may be a little biased due to the heart pain and disrespect…

I Support You
We all need some type of support. Let me repeat it… every single person on earth needs support. Humans were not designed to make it through life alone. Every successful business, community, social group, family is built upon a foundation of supporters. Generally speaking, we define what it means to…

Do You Believe In Love?
I would say one of my favorite topics to talk or write about is love and relationships. Christmas is just a few days away, so I’m watching romantic movies 🙂 . I did not expect to read that a well known Christian couple filed for divorce earlier this week. Then…

Why Are Marriages Among African-Americans Declining?
I recently read an article about how marriages are declining all across the United States. Even with all the wedding pictures shared daily on social media the marriage rate in the U.S. is presently at historic lows. It isn’t just low, it is actually the lowest it has ever been…

Never Date on Potential
Life is about learning. The last couple of dating experiences has taught me something new about the type of women I should be pursuing, and this type of wisdom is not for everyone. I would say it is only for those who are being intentional about dating. Never date based…