When did you last realize something you believed to be true… was false? To someone like me, I admit I’m a little naïve, a dreamer, a man who has lived outside of societal norms for most of my life, I … Continue reading Money and Marriage in the Black Community
Dating. What does it really mean to you? Growing up, a date usually consisted of taking a girl out to a dinner and a movie, or attending some form of social event. Now, in 2020 it can be very normal … Continue reading Dating in 2020
Last night after speaking to one of my close friends about relationships, I really took time to think about a few things. Before I write on my thoughts, I first want to say… it’s so important to have trustworthy friendships. … Continue reading I’m Looking for a Teammate
Today was interesting. It started with me pulling the sheets over my head, wishing I didn’t have to go to work. As I didn’t want to get out of bed. I was tired from working and traveling all day yesterday, … Continue reading Community Investment
A few nights ago my brother and I found ourselves discussing the topic of marriage and family, specifically in the African-American community. He shared a few ideas that really made me think. He made the statement that, “most successful marriages … Continue reading Thoughts on Marriage
Tonight I want to respond to a few myths which I feel are present in the minds of a lot of single adults who are looking for love. Just scrolling through my social media feed I see friends posting and … Continue reading The Truths Behind Relationship Myths
A few nights ago I watched a video of black girls being harassed for riding their bikes into a white neighborhood (link). The fact that these white kids did not fear being video-recorded, while they verbally attacked these black girls … Continue reading Racism: A Random Story
When I think of justice I naturally think of a judge & jury or a law enforcer with a badge. Naturally I think of having to fight for justice, as in most cases I probably won’t get the benefit of … Continue reading What is Justice?
I’ve only been to one Masquerade ball in my life. It was a rare and crazy experience, at the least. One night, maybe around 5 years ago, I remember being bored while living in New Orleans. I picked up my … Continue reading Masquerading Through Life
I’m getting closer to feel better regarding opening up my heart towards being in a relationship. Earlier today, as I was thinking about being in another relationship, I thought to myself. “Do people my age even use the term girlfriend … Continue reading Are We Friends or Lovers?