Last night after speaking to one of my close friends about relationships, I really took time to think about a few things. Before I write on my thoughts, I first want to say… it’s so important to have trustworthy friendships. Iron sharpens iron. We all need people we can share…
Category: Love
I love to feel loved! My goal in life is to spread the love of God to others. God is love. But, what is love to you? How do you know if someone’s love for you is real? I want to tackle questions like these and provide my life and my feelings as an open plate for you to dine upon.

The Truths Behind Relationship Myths
Tonight I want to respond to a few myths which I feel are present in the minds of a lot of single adults who are looking for love. Just scrolling through my social media feed I see friends posting and commenting their opinions on various relationship topics. Friends are having…

Are We Friends or Lovers?
I’m getting closer to feel better regarding opening up my heart towards being in a relationship. Earlier today, as I was thinking about being in another relationship, I thought to myself. “Do people my age even use the term girlfriend or boyfriend in today’s society?” Being a man in my…

My Funny Love Life
February 14th. Valentine’s day. A day to celebrate romance. It’s a special time out of the year where the little girls and women expect to receive some type of gift, and all the little boys and men hoping for a kiss or some affection. However, this past Valentine’s day and…

To My Future Wife
The holidays make us all emotional. Christmas and Thanksgiving will always help me recognize what’s most important to me… family and love. It is now a few weeks into 2020; I’ve begun to notice a lot of females on social media posting unfiltered heartfelt opinions… mind you, this isn’t always…

Random Thoughts on Life
Currently, I have been going through a lot. I’ve been thinking a lot about life and where I want to be in the next 5 – 10 years. I’ve been asking myself various questions like: “Should I change my career or get my doctorate or go to law school? What…

Timing is Everything
Yesterday evening I took a walk outside my condo. As I was walking along the beach feeling the cool breeze, sand beneath my toes, enjoying the gorgeous view of the orange sun shining through the clouds. I began to think about the past. Past relationships, past hopes, past dreams, past…

That Loving Feeling
It’s been a while since I’ve written about love and relationships as it really hasn’t been on my mind. Sometimes we can go through seasons of life where we are emotionally in a perpetual state of exhaustion. Spending so much energy trying to do so much, to where you lose…

Why Marriage May Not Be The Best Option For Everyone
One thing I have learned at my ripe old age of 38 years old is that life is the best teacher… some may even propose that life is the only teacher. As a younger man, when I used to have discussions with my friends (men & women) on relationships and…

What Qualities Are Most Important In A Relationship?
The holiday season is almost here! This is the time for families to come together, it is the season for hot cocoa and tea cakes, for kisses under the mistletoe and NBA basketball 🙂 . The holiday season is also the time of year when many people are looking for…