I am beginning to seriously dread any new relationships that I embark upon. It’s like the self-imposed pressure of meeting the “Right One“ can feel overwhelming. I have to release myself from that pressure, so I can open my heart to women who aren’t my “type”, or who I normally…
Tag: Marriage
The union between two people, the commitment to love and cherish, and the vow to love someone for the rest of their lives, is amazing. Marriage is the essence of family; it’s what makes a family come together. Marriage was made to be the best picture of love.
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Men, Women, Marriage
Earlier this year I read a blog that was so powerful to me. Especially since it was written by a woman. I always listen very closely when a woman writes transparently on the topic of love or relationships. After receiving so many likes on a comment I posted on the…
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Kim and Kanye… What Happened??
I was scrolling through posts on my Instagram feed… only to see a picture of Kim Kardashian-West praising her for being a good mother & wife. Then I saw a comment that she was divorcing Kanye. After searching a little bit, I read that Kim filed for a divorce from…
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Truth Session #1 – Random Thoughts
Lately I have become more inclined to speak my feelings with a little more bluntness, along with sprinkles of truth and sincerity. It’s time that I start acknowledging my feelings, and place a higher value on expressing my heart rather than on other people’s feelings. Not that I intend to…
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Money and Marriage in the Black Community
When did you last realize something you believed to be true… was actually false? I admit I’m a little naïve, a dreamer, a man who has lived outside of societal norms for most of my life. I probably have those realizations more than the average person. Up until this point,…
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I’m Looking for a Teammate
Last night after speaking to one of my close friends about relationships, I really took time to think about a few things. Before I write on my thoughts, I first want to say… it’s so important to have trustworthy friendships. Iron sharpens iron. We all need people we can share…
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Thoughts on Marriage
A few nights ago my brother and I found ourselves discussing the topic of marriage and family, specifically in the African-American community. He shared a few ideas that really made me think. He made the statement that, “most successful marriages are those that are financially stable.” Now I know the…
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The Truths Behind Relationship Myths
Tonight I want to respond to a few myths which I feel are present in the minds of a lot of single adults who are looking for love. Just scrolling through my social media feed I see friends posting and commenting their opinions on various relationship topics. Friends are having…
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The Fear of Being Submissive
Earlier today, I received a text of a social media post regarding a woman’s idea of submission. At first I just glanced at it and continued what i was doing before. Thinking to myself, “Oh, this is another rant from another hurt woman regarding being submissive in a relationship.” But,…
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To My Future Wife
The holidays make us all emotional. Christmas and Thanksgiving will always help me recognize what’s most important to me… family and love. It is now a few weeks into 2020; I’ve begun to notice a lot of females on social media posting unfiltered heartfelt opinions… mind you, this isn’t always…