I am beginning to seriously dread any new relationships that I embark upon. It’s like the self-imposed pressure of meeting the “Right One“ can feel overwhelming. I have to release myself from that pressure, so I can open my heart to women who aren’t my “type”, or who I normally…
Tag: Dating

Don’t Devalue Yourself
It’s New Year’s eve and I’m at home. I will assume most people are also spending tonight at home, as I read that state and federal government officials, including the CDC, have publicly advised people to stay at home and avoid large crowds due to accelerating the spread of the…

Let’s Have Some Real Talk
This year has been so crazy! Even this past week has been interesting. Still recovering from what I ate on Thanksgiving dinner 🙂 , God granting me favor in my career, learning everyday new things about what it means to be a single father, and for the first time I’m…

Dating in 2020
Dating. What does it really mean to you? Growing up, a date usually consisted of taking a girl out to a dinner and a movie, or attending some form of social event. Now, in 2020 it can be very normal to date online over a videoconferencing phone app. Some time…

The Truths Behind Relationship Myths
Tonight I want to respond to a few myths which I feel are present in the minds of a lot of single adults who are looking for love. Just scrolling through my social media feed I see friends posting and commenting their opinions on various relationship topics. Friends are having…

Random Thoughts on Life
Currently, I have been going through a lot. I’ve been thinking a lot about life and where I want to be in the next 5 – 10 years. I’ve been asking myself various questions like: “Should I change my career or get my doctorate or go to law school? What…

The Perceptions of Dating
Let’s talk about what’s real and what’s real in your imagination. This blog will be an in depth view of my thoughts on online dating. What’s real about it, and how quickly we are to judge or label people without knowing them, basically “swipe left”. I also want to write…

Timing is Everything
Yesterday evening I took a walk outside my condo. As I was walking along the beach feeling the cool breeze, sand beneath my toes, enjoying the gorgeous view of the orange sun shining through the clouds. I began to think about the past. Past relationships, past hopes, past dreams, past…

Winter’s Lonliness
It seems like the hounds of winter are calling out into the cold nights. Young single adults are emitting cries of loneliness through social media and online dating apps. The feeling of family, the desire to not be alone during the holidays, the longing for someone to share love with,…

Why are you single?
To all the single professionals out there… let me ask you a few questions. It seems like most of the single people who I know that want to be in a relationship are having the same issues. Women are saying, “I can’t find a good man who can love me…