Do you love yourself? No, really do you? This is a serious question that requires a thoughtful response; because just as it requires a lot of thought before you would tell anyone that you love them, you don’t want to tell yourself “I love you” without taking the time to clearly…
Tag: black women

Is She the Right One for Me
Just like a moth is attracted to a flame, I am finding myself always being attracted to women who don’t want to be in a relationship. One of the greatest mysteries of relationships to me, is the fact that there are so many attractive, interesting, beautiful people (men & women)…

Alone
I really feel it to be true that no one should be alone. As people get older and maturer, in most cases their values change. They begin to place less value in their material possessions and more value in their relationships; that’s why older people give more than younger people,…
Beauty and Attraction
There are so many things in life which are beautiful, which I pass by everyday. I know that I don’t live in the Garden of Eden, but there are times when I smile because I stopped to notice the spontaneous innocent words of a young child, or the natural contours…

I Can’t Be Without You
Is there something missing in your life that will make you feel more complete? What do you think it is? Is it a person, if you were in love do you think you would feel complete? Or do you think it’s just money, because money is usually the answer to…

The Things Men Look For in Women
Picture this. A man is seated at a table outside the bar area of a popular restaurant in the city; enjoying the few minutes he has for his lunch break. As his attention goes back and forth from his cell phone, to surveying the menu to place an order with his server… he sits still,…

Thoughts on Relationships & Women
Recently I have become more inspired to be more proactive and make more of an effort to engage myself in interacting with women; and I’m making more of my time available to do so. I have now found the balance internally that has allowed me to decide and dictate what…