Time is a finite resource. Nothing lasts forever. My time is one of my most valuable resources, so I’m generally very intentional on how/where I invest it, especially when it comes to dating. I live my life with purpose. So I don’t want to waste my time and energy on…
Tag: Men

My Thoughts on Abortion
Today the U.S. Supreme Court issued a decision striking down Roe v. Wade. This is a big deal. After seeing a few ignorant social media posts I decided to write a blog expressing my thoughts on abortion and the ruling today by the U.S. Supreme Court. I will not dare…

Are Men Supposed To Treat Women Like Princesses?
Earlier today one of my friends shared an Instagram post. The post essentially said men should treat women they’re interested in like a princess. Just a side note: feeling a little shady today. All to say, this post may be a little biased due to the heart pain and disrespect…

Why Are Marriages Among African-Americans Declining?
I recently read an article about how marriages are declining all across the United States. Even with all the wedding pictures shared daily on social media the marriage rate in the U.S. is presently at historic lows. It isn’t just low, it is actually the lowest it has ever been…

My Needs Are Changing
Lying in bed this morning… I felt like writing out my thoughts. I’ve always been very sensitive to my feelings. Just in this past week, I have seen how the needs of men, women and young people are changing from what they were just 15-20 years ago. While also recognizing…

Men, Women, Marriage
Earlier this year I read a blog that was so powerful to me. Especially since it was written by a woman. I always listen very closely when a woman writes transparently on the topic of love or relationships. After receiving so many likes on a comment I posted on the…

Dating in 2020
Dating. What does it really mean to you? Growing up, a date usually consisted of taking a girl out to a dinner and a movie, or attending some form of social event. Now, in 2020 it can be very normal to date online over a videoconferencing phone app. Some time…

Timing is Everything
Yesterday evening I took a walk outside my condo. As I was walking along the beach feeling the cool breeze, sand beneath my toes, enjoying the gorgeous view of the orange sun shining through the clouds. I began to think about the past. Past relationships, past hopes, past dreams, past…

Do Women Truly Want A Good Guy?
Let me just answer the question of “Do most women want a Good Guy?” The answer is simply put… NO. Now, I know some women do want a “Good guy”. And, most women when asked the question, the majority would probably say, “Yes, I want a good guy.” But, I…

Why are you single?
To all the single professionals out there… let me ask you a few questions. It seems like most of the single people who I know that want to be in a relationship are having the same issues. Women are saying, “I can’t find a good man who can love me…