Last night after speaking to one of my close friends about relationships, I really took time to think about a few things. Before I write on my thoughts, I first want to say… it’s so important to have trustworthy friendships. Iron sharpens iron. We all need people we can share…
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Are We Friends or Lovers?
I’m getting closer to feel better regarding opening up my heart towards being in a relationship. Earlier today, as I was thinking about being in another relationship, I thought to myself. “Do people my age even use the term girlfriend or boyfriend in today’s society?” Being a man in my…

Picking Good Fruits
Pick the best people to be in your life. Life is short, so enjoy its sweet fragrances and flavor by using wisdom with how you make decisions on relationships.

Life Lessons: Growth requires change
One thing I will never understand is why people are so afraid of change. Some people will never look to build a relationship with someone outside of their circle of friends… or better put, “safety net”. I was talking to a friend tonight about how some of his friends and…

Your Way or My Way
This blog is going to touch a few topics about relationships. So put on your booties because we’re about to go knee deep into the unseen muddy waters of your heart. In all of us there are things that we’ve done that we personally vow not to discuss openly. “There…

Are You Feeling the Holiday Season?
Man, I just don’t feel the Christmas spirit this year. I don’t see many people who have put up Christmas lights or decorations. I know there have to be some people out there who may have snowflakes and mistletoe on their doorsteps, Christmas presents under the tree, family and friends…

That Special Someone
Anyone who is living in the single life with aspirations of meeting someone special is looking for just that… someone who is special. They don’t want just any person off the street holding up a sign saying, “Looking for love”. I want someone who gives me butterflies when I see their…

The Truth Hurts
The truths of some people’s lives have hurt them so bad, to where it’s easier for them to believe in a lie. And, they end up living their lives outside of reality, and only give invitations out to a select few for visitation. Because most people cannot handle the truth….

Meeting People: Friends or Lovers?
Having discernment when creating new relationships can be more of trial and error, than having a rule of thumb. For me, as I become more mature in life, the clearer I understand what it is I’m looking for in a relationship. Every person in your life plays a role (or multiple…

Is She the Right One for Me
Just like a moth is attracted to a flame, I am finding myself always being attracted to women who don’t want to be in a relationship. One of the greatest mysteries of relationships to me, is the fact that there are so many attractive, interesting, beautiful people (men & women)…