Lying in bed this morning… I felt like writing out my thoughts. I’ve always been very sensitive to my feelings. Just in this past week, I have seen how the needs of men, women and young people are changing from … Continue reading My Needs Are Changing
I am beginning to seriously dread any new relationships that I embark upon. It’s like the self-imposed pressure of meeting the “Right One“ can feel overwhelming. I have to release myself from that pressure, so I can open my heart … Continue reading How Do You View Love?
This year has been so crazy! Even this past week has been interesting. Still recovering from what I ate on Thanksgiving dinner 🙂 , God granting me favor in my career, learning everyday new things about what it means to … Continue reading Let’s Have Some Real Talk
When did you last realize something you believed to be true… was actually false? I admit I’m a little naïve, a dreamer, a man who has lived outside of societal norms for most of my life. I probably have those … Continue reading Money and Marriage in the Black Community
Dating. What does it really mean to you? Growing up, a date usually consisted of taking a girl out to a dinner and a movie, or attending some form of social event. Now, in 2020 it can be very normal … Continue reading Dating in 2020
When I think of justice I naturally think of a judge & jury or a law enforcer with a badge. Naturally I think of having to fight for justice, as in most cases I probably won’t get the benefit of … Continue reading What is Justice?
I know the holidays make us all emotional. Christmas and Thanksgiving always bring me back to what’s most important… family and love. Now, a few weeks into 2020, I’ve begun to notice a lot of females on social media making … Continue reading To My Future Wife
There is something about the #MeToo movement that just rubs me the wrong way. It’s not that I don’t respect women, or don’t want them to receive justice from sexual abuse, or have equal rights, etc. I feel it has … Continue reading #MeToo #HimToo – Too Judgmental?
One thing I have learned at my ripe old age of 38 years old is that life is the best teacher… some may even propose that life is the only teacher. As a younger man, when I used to have … Continue reading Why Marriage May Not Be The Best Option For Everyone
One thing I see in a lot of people, including me… is the desire to have something special. Everyone wants something special. Just a few days ago was Black Friday, which is supposedly the day out of the year where … Continue reading Creating Something Special