The last few days have been very tasteless. It’s Saturday morning. I just finished making my son some breakfast. Today I will take full advantage of the weekend by getting some rest and lying in bed. However, since I’m not really tired I decided to write a blog and express…
New Dating Goals for 2023
I’m stepping out in faith and proclaiming I will be either engaged or married by this time next year. There it is… I said it. I want to be loved. I want to make love. I want to give love. 2022 has now come to an end and 2023 is…
My Thoughts on Ye and Kyrie
Ye (formerly known as Kanye West) and Kyrie Irving are two very successful and influential black men. Recently, one of my close friends asked me to share my thoughts on all that is going on in the media surrounding them. I knew they were being labeled anti-Semitic by the media….
What Are Your Family Values?
As I think about the family values within the black community I am saddened by our combined failure to promote and encourage a healthy home life. The facts don’t lie. 7 out of every 10 black children are born in a single parent household. More families are getting divorced. Many…
A Friend With Benefits
What does a friend with benefits mean to you? It probably means something different to me. I would say when most women think of a friend with benefits, they think of a woman who allows a man to have casual sex with her without being in an exclusive dating relationship….
Dating 101: 5 Questions To Ask When Dating
Time is a finite resource. Nothing lasts forever. My time is one of my most valuable resources, so I’m generally very intentional on how/where I invest it, especially when it comes to dating. I live my life with purpose. So I don’t want to waste my time and energy on…
The Inequality of Judgment: What If Kris Jenner Was A Black Man?
Today I feel the need to call out Kris Jenner. This is more than your usual celebrity gossip. I want to highlight the inequality of judgment society has for different people. I will also touch on topics such as: feminism, sexual exploitation, prostitution, family, morals, etc. I’m generally not interested…
Beauty vs. Sex Appeal
Almost every time I log on social media, I scroll across women posting sexually provocative images and/or videos. The attention sexually appealing women get on social media is insane. I would dare say there are women who have millions of followers on social media, just because they are essentially selling…
Deshaun Watson: Victim or Victimizer?
After hearing how the public is criticizing NFL quarterback Deshaun Watson, I also want to chime in on all that is going on. I want to look at all which has transpired, put it in context and bring enlightenment towards our social justice system of “guilty until proven innocent” when…
Death: A Few Thoughts
Life is so interesting. I believe no one can fully conceptualize life in its true essence, or in its fullness. It’s so easy to think about all the beauty and wonders of life, yet no one likes to think about death. Even though we all know everything born on this…